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Eighteen Oddities in Yunnan
Posted by sharon in Life Etiquette on September 2, 2010
Eighteen Oddities in Yunnan, also called Eighteen Wonders of Yunnan, are eighteen unique traits in Yunnan Province.
Eighteen Oddities in Yunnan are generally presented as follows:
1. The eggs are sold tying up with straws.
2. Bamboo hats are used as pot covers, which are of good breathability.
3. Three mosquitoes can make up a dish as the mosquitoes are so large that just three mosquitoes are large enough to compose a dish.
4. Bamboo is used for smoking pipes.
5. Erkuai – a local famous snack made of rice, which is very savory and glutinous. It can be boiled, braised, fried, etc.
6. The same clothes can be worn for all four seasons. You may also see the clothes for all four seasons on a day in Yunnan as the climatic conditions may vary widely. Maybe during the day you are wearing the T-shirt, but at night you have to wear the sweater.
7. Young girls are usually called “Old Lady”. It is expression of intimacy and goodwill, wishing it can bring the girls good health.
8. Automobiles run faster than trains as there are many curves around the high mountains and canyons.
9. Toes are exposed all year round, which can make people feel cool as people often climb mountains.
10. Rain here but sunshine there as the weather in Yunnan is often variable between areas.
11. Girls wearing flowers for all the four seasons.
12. Girls carry tobacco bags as in some regions, girls have the habit of smoking.
13. Green vegetable is called bitter vegetable. It got its name not from its taste but from the old customs.
14. Old women climb mountains faster than monkeys as they are quite diligent and always chop firewood inside mountains. Even at the age of 80 or 90, they still can climb the mountains freely as if they are walking on the flat land.
15. Trains go abroad but not inland. In ancient time, there was only one railway from Kunming to Hanoi of Vietnam but no domestic railway.
16. Monks can have love affairs.
17. Children are raised by men as women are busy with their work, thus most men stay at home to take care of their children.
18. Automobiles are moving in the clouds as roads in Yunnan always wind up along colossal and precipitous mountains and fog spreads all over the mountaintops.
Nowadays, some of the traits already disappeared, while some of them have been retained. However, Eighteen Oddities in Yunnan really reflect the unique location and culture of Yunnan Province.
Qixi Festival
Qixi Festival, also known as the Festival to Plead for Skills or Double Seventh Festival,is the most romantic holiday in ancient China. Nowadays, QixiFestival is regarded as the Chinese Valentine’s Day. It is celebrated on the 7th day of 7th month on the Chinese lunar calendar and this year it falls on August 16.
In ancient China, there spread a romantic love legend about the origin of the Festival. The legend goes that, Zhi Nu (a fairy) and Niu Lang (a mortal) fell in love with each other and then got married. But the God of Heaven and the Queen Mother was not satisfied with their marriage and seperated them at last. Taking their sincere feelings into consideration, the couple was allowed to meet at the Magpie Bridge once a year – on the 7th day of 7th lunar month.
The history of Qixi Festival can date back to the period of Han Dynasty (202BC~220). During the Festival, girls will prepare fruits, melons and incense as offerings to Zhi Nu, praying to master high skills in needlecraft and wishing to find ideal husbands.
In some parts of China, people celebrate it by writing wishes (especially in the form of poetry) on small pieces of paper and then hanging them on bamboos. There exists the custom of floating bamboos with wishes on the river during the midnight on that day. In the evening of that day, if you stand under the grape trellis, you could probably hear Zhi Nu and Niu Lang’s talk.
Ancient Chinese Wedding Custom – Post-wedding Ritual
Posted by sharon in Wedding Traditions on July 20, 2010
The day following the wedding ceremony, the bride would serve tea to the groom’s family. At that time, she would be formally introduced to all the members of the groom’s family. She would serve tea in order, starting from the groom’s parents then proceeding from the oldest family members to the youngest ones. Lucky red envelopes which were filled with money or jewelry would be given to her after the tea was offered and a sip was taken.
Three days after the wedding ceremony, the couple would pay a visit to the bride’s family. At that time, the bride would not be considered a member of her original family any longer, instead, she would be received as a guest for her parents.






